Why you shouldnt marry him.

Stop Girl, STOP, Read the signs!!!!

Unfortunately, there aren’t classes in school teaching us how to choose a great romantic partner.  Marriage is a HUGE commitment. It should be for a lifetime. But lets face the facts.......It sometimes ends in divorce. If you are thinking about getting married make sure no signs point to "you shouldn't marry him."  Look for the clues.

 If he cant hold a job girl you better dash . I don’t know about you but I do not want a guy that I have to support. If your boyfriend cannot hold a job, don’t enter into a marriage with him. Of course, we have all had jobs that don’t work out. However, if your boyfriend is being constantly fired or quitting jobs, that deserves some serious consideration. That is probably a big clue to you as to what marriage is going to be like. If he is always lying. I think we could all agree on the fact that any great relationship is based on pure honesty. If you are not able to be straightforward with him and if he has to hide a part of his life from you, the talk about marriage shouldn't even come up. Marriage should be a commitment between two best friends, who hide nothing from each other no matter how awful it may be. If he will lie about something small then he will about the big stuff. 

  If he is controlling. They almost like to 'claim their property' and make it official. His desire for control will only grow from there, he will prevent you from seeing your friends and even family. Proposal should be an act of unconditional love, claiming that you are the one he wants to grow old with.

You don’t trust each other. If one of you is compelled to read the other’s texts and check their Facebook and give the third-degree after a night out, you need to get to the root of why there’s so much snooping. Is it because you truly believe your partner is being shady? Is it his insecurity showing through? Whatever the reason, it’s not a good sign. (And if your partner is constantly checking in on your personal accounts, you could be in an abusive relationship).

If a man is verbally, physically, or mentally abusive . What he does, and not what he says, is what matters here. So, please leave any situation where your mental, emotional, and/or physical well-being is in danger. That also goes for the men who abuse their own bodies by using drugs or drinking too much. If you two fight all the time when you are dating, chances are it'll be 10 times worse when you are married. If you cant work out problems while you are just dating then its best not to marry. If your boyfriend is mean to you. You know that person who insults you and then says they are “joking” and that you’re “too sensitive” when your face turns red and your eyes start filling with tears? Yeah, that person should not be your life partner.

  

If your partner has a history of being a player, leaving a trail of short-lived flings and broken hearts behind him or her, you should definitely think about marrying the person.

 If he cringes whenever he is around your child. Or he screams bloody murder when Sue or Bob touches his laptop or his new Nike shoes. Eventually, you will get the feeling that not only does he hate your children, but he also hates all children! This spells trouble.And a future divorce.

Never marry someone hoping they will change. Marry someone because they already have changed. Not only do you need to reconsider marrying him , you need to reconsider dating him. So, apply these tips into your current relationship and be truthful about who you are, what you need, and your partner. Don’t let the pressure of wanting to tie the knot weigh so heavily on your shoulders that you marry the wrong man.